February 15, 2012
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{emma’s heart party}
A few weeks ago Kate had a party here for some of her friends..
that night, putting Emma to bed she asked,
“mom, tan i hab a party subday?”
I said yes.
and so we began thinking…
Since valentines day was coming, and, “since I’m weally dood at tutting out hearts…” she said.
we planned a valentines party~ held this past sunday, after church, in our living room!I’m not really a planner. I don’t think about things far in advance..
I wish I did. it would save me the crazy-run around like a chicken with my head cut off-last minute scramble to get it all done.
I always tell myself I’m going to not do that. but so far…
So, Saturday. we enjoyed running around like a chicken with our heads cut off..
not really. we just ran to the dollar store. grocery store. and collected everything we could find around the house with a heart/love theme.here’s our little “entrance gate” to the party~



Last year, when we had just moved up here, and still in our furnished rental..
I spotted this round table, in a dark wood, one day at a thrift store.
it was 10 bucks. had some scratches. but I envisioned it refinished in white.I wasn’t really sure where I’d use it. we didn’t have the space at the time where we were.
and I stood and dilly dallied back and forth on whether or not to get it.
But so glad I did. it’s been one of those, I have no idea what I’m going to do with this, turned, best purchase ever~so far it’s been a desk for Ben. a desk for me. a game table. a school table for Emma.
and now, the perfect valentines party table for four little giggly girls.All that to say.. if you see something you like and it’s a great deal, maybe you should get it-
and figure out what you’ll do with it later.
I didn’t have a tablecloth to cover it, but, in a pinch, curtains can work fine too!

I thought a canopy of some sort would be pretty over the table~
so the rigged up tree branch and tulle I have for the little girls bedroom window was brought down.it’s heavy, so I wasn’t sure how to get it to stay up.
but nothing a gazillion thumb tacks can’t hold.I ended up making it more of a backdrop vs. canopy..
just in case those trusty thumb tacks came untacked in the middle of the night and crashed down on the table full of dishes!it’s actually still hanging. {oh, the doubters. though I won’t mention names!}








Emma helped with every little part..
from handing me the thumb tacks to setting the table.
and her favorite.. filling the candy holders. {i think she was sneaking some bites}




Valentines has to be the easiest thing in the world to decorate for.
really all you need is pink and red construction paper.







We bought little gifts at the dollar store {love the dollar store.. you can find some cuteso stuff for a buck!}
and a little set of four wine glasses, in just the right size. {served with lemonade, of course}



The food~
heart shaped turkey & peanut butter and jelly sandwiches {separate, not together}
and heart shaped cheese. {best investment – heart shaped cookie cutters}



and the sweet stuff~
Now, don’t let those cupcakes fool you.
I had every intention of making some myself, but grabbed a box of hostess vanilla cupcakes {just in case}…
I went with the {just in case} plan.
slapping on a little canned icing and sprinkles to make them look a bit more homemade.
it’s called, pimp my cupcake.
white christmas lights make any party more magical, don’t ya think?






and the guests~
Emma was excited.
of all the kids, she’s had the toughest time with our move here.
still being homeschooled, she hasn’t met all the friends the other two have.
and at church, it’s a big place, and a constant revolving door of new faces..
it’s just been harder for her to find one or two buddies to hang out with.
But as I’ve gotten to know all these little girls mama’s..
Emma’s had a chance to spend some more time with them as well.~
and I loved being able to help Emma’s wish of a party happen
but most of all, I loved {loved} hearing her talk and bond with the girls.
to see as all the shy awkwardness fade fast as true friendships were born.
Tonight when she got home from outback {like awana} she said,
“welp. all my friends were dare.”
and that made me smile.




craft time~ {thanks, kate}
modge podge picture frames.





they all liked the balloons~

a few of them couldn’t seem to hold on to theirs~ {maybe intentionally}



It was a sweet day full of fun memories and getting to know new friends~
I heard talk among them of maybe an Easter party.


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Since the living room is still set up from Sunday,
we had our family valentines dinner in there last night.
with a little heart shaped meatloafs that Emma made.
and pink mashed potatoes I made from melting some red sprinkles in them.
and… even some heart shaped butter!
I was joking that we’d eaten so many heart shaped things in the past several days we might begin pooping hearts…



*****
and thanks for all the birthday wishes~ it was a good day.
just relaxed with me and the little girls, then dinner and a movie that night with Shayne.
Kate wanted to take a picture of me before we left.
she told me to hold my skirt out.. so I did.
I found this dress on the clearance rack at h&m…
the sign said $10, but the tag wasn’t marked.
When I asked one of the sales ladies if it was 10, she said, “no…”
I was about to walk away, when she finished with,
“it’s actually FIVE!”
I was thrilled.
because the behind story is that I’d tried it on back in the summer and loved it…
but it was too expensive, so I had put it back. and walked out a little bummed cause,
I liked that dress!so all these months later to find it. and at that price!!
sometimes when things like that happen..
a dress you had wanted to buy but didn’t.
hanging there, crammed back in the clearance rack, as if hiding, just waiting on you.
and, in the exact size you need.
yeah… God cares about the little things.

amber.
Comments (36)
darling party!
i can’t even imagine what kind of party you’d accomplish if you planned far ahead. that looks so lovely! i know emma felt special and it will be a sweet memory for you.
you look so lovely. happy birthday once again!
k~*
@tildystar - haha. i know, right. i might actually MAKE cupcakes, instead of frost the hostess ones!!
thanks my friend. love you!
What a sweet party for sweet little girls!
Stunningly beautiful Amber! The birch limbs (or are they aspen?) with the sheer fabric look so amazing and dreamy. What a special and unforgettable treat for Emma. Loved every single picture! Especially that last one. You look amazing girl!
What a sweet heart party for Emma — I don’t know how you accomplish so much in a short time — it all came out really well, and I love the Ross dress, too!
“….pimp your cupcakes”!! you make me laugh.
and really. you running around last minute and being able to throw a fancy-schmancy party like that has me shaking my head in wonder. i could plan for a million years and never get it that good.
i bet emma and friends have this valentine’s day marked as the best one eva’.
cute CUTE dress. $5.00? are you kidding me? yep. God cares about the little things. 8 more sleeps, baby….!!!
You’re such a darling! I bet Emma felt loved. My mommy did a couple of special things like that for me when I was a little girl. She’s obviously done bigger and better since, of course, but those memories are still very very sweet in my mind. On the topic of feeling loved… I know you gave up a lot of sleep for me the other day. Love you for it – things like that make you such an amazing person.
That, and your vision with a tree branch, ha, I love it!!
You look amazing in your frock – love stories like that!
Love it!
You are so creative- it’s beautiful!
that little girl`s party is just breathtaking! those lucky little girls. i`m sure they will remember that party for YEARS to come! so calming to look… i especially like that branch you used for a curtain rod. and that black and white music picture- if you ever want to sell it…
have a lovely day, sista!
WHAT FUN
(<that was not yelling, that was more gushing excitement kinda thing)
little girls just are the funnest things. I bet they loved every second of all these preatties and sweets.
I always kinda love when you speak in your emma voice/lisp/whatever.
and i’m glad you clarified about the turkey/pb&j, I prly would have thot they are all together in one sandwich
How sweet!
Precious memories.
You are a sweet and thoughtful mama!
That party was adorable. I agree valentines is easy to decorate for, its amazing how many heart things you can find sticking here and there. Love the party – and the dress!
What a beautiful, girly party. My daughter would have LOVED it!!
i am still very much a little girl… i LOVELOVELOVE everything about this party. so beautiful and clever and fun.
and whatintheworld? five bucks for that dress? you look like a million…and yes. how cool of our creator to be checking out the clearance racks at h&m to arrange a surprise treat.
Love all the heartsy stuff!! And the pictures of the girls are extra cool. I love that last one of Emma. I haven’t used used my camera in so long, it’s probably rusting.
I’ve been meeting myself coming and going! :-/
Oh and the modge podge or whatever it’s called….I’ve been wanting to play with that stuff and do something with it. Looks so fun!
This makes me miss Emma Dilemma. And you. And Kate. And everybody.
But it sure was cute! 
I love how you just DO this kind of stuff for your kids. I tend to often answer “Well, we’ll have to see” because I don’t want to commit to something I am not sure will happen. LOVELY party and yes, that dress was a steal! Lookin’ good, girlfriend!
So cute. I love this idea! I can’t wait to have kids so I can throw cutesy parties like this for them
I just loved it all – that you let Emma have a party, that you and Emma are so creative, the decor and food, the precious little girls full of giggles and laughter, and your fabulous dress deal!! Reading this just made me want to hug you and Emma up!
We moved a lot when I was a little girl. I wasn’t homeschooled, of course, but I was so very shy back then. It was so hard for me to make new friends. To make matters worse, unlike Emma I was awkward, and taller than all the other little girls! (I am still taller than all my friends!) But like you, my Mama welcomed all children to our home, and both my folks made it fun to be there!
Wow, didn’t know all those feelings were stored up in there! Glad you reminded me again of the preciousness of my sweet, loving parents!!
love,love,love! Such a beautiful party and so cute of Emma and her little friends.
What a creative momma you are, amazing! I must say you do a thousand times better of a job running
around like a chicken with “your head chopped off” then I could taking 2 weeks to plan something like that:)
Beautiful!
just beautiful. what a sweet fun party for em.
heart poop. you are hilarious.
you are rockin’ the dress… lovely.
So super cute!!! You did such a good job with everything, it looks beautiful! I’m sure the girls just loved it, any little girl would have with everything you put together!
oh wow is all I can say! So many things I wanted to comment about, I almost need to just start from the top and comment as I go
I love how you went to all the trouble to make it so fun for 4 little girls!
First off you’re such an awesome decorator! You remind me of my mom, you just throw it all together and it looks amazing! I never would have thought about holding up a branch with thumb tacks but people like you or Lys Welch would
About the the table and getting stuff you don’t know you need. My mom is always running into things like that and I used to always say “so where are you going to put that?” and she’d say “well I don’t know, ya know I gotta take it home first and see if I can find a place”
Actually wouldn’t it be cool if all you had to do to show love was to eat it? Kinda like getting hyper on sugar
Emma’s so cute and so are you! You’re so funny about pooping hearts
@inanorchard - i believe they’re birch.. they’re all over up here.
and only a pregnant lady would think i meant all on the same sandwhich!! hee hee~
@lin789 - yes, EIGHT! <3
@chix0rgirl - anytime little sister. i know you’d do the same for me. xo
@fruitloops115 -
oh, i totally felt it was emphasis and NOT YELLING!
@ToLiveLoved - modge podge IS great fun~ it’s so easy to use. just slap a bunch over something and smear it around, then wa-la. it’s dry and done.
@MollyDraga - and we miss you. hope to see you next week! xo
@appalolly - oh, i answer, “well, we’ll have to see…” to alot of their request too.
@pettybunch - precious memories. i’m glad you shared.
@redladybug18 - ”Actually wouldn’t it be cool if all you had to do to show love was to eat it? Kinda like getting hyper on sugar
”
haha. yeS!!
So much lovely. I don’t plan ahead either and really do the chicken with the head cut off moves often. Keeps life exciting!! Sigh. But really. Planning or no, that was a little girls’ dream party. I LoVe the branches and the candy jars. And the pictures of the little girls are priceless.
Belated happy birthday to beautiful, creative you.
Adorable party. V-day wasn’t so much a big deal for us. Having only boys they just weren’t that “in” to it. LoL
Friends are priceless and so are those memories!
What a party! Oh wow, it just looked dreamy! I loved too that you and Emma did it together… That’s the kind of thing that takes extra patience sometimes, but what makes the memories you look back on and go, “awwww! remember when we….”
Valentine’s Day is so cute to decorate for, so fun. And sadly I did so little this year because of a crazy week.
Your little dress story is precious. Things like that feel like a hug straight from God! And it looks just beautiful on you! ♥
such a sweet and pretty party! I like the branch so much that if I wasn’t flying next week I’d bribe you to bring me some.
Which, by the way…I am super excited that I get to see you and talk with you for real! I think I must have missed your birthday. Hope it was super happy and celebrated! I love your sparkle, humor, honesty and most of all the way you make me feel so understood when those normally-verboten subjects come up.
Love you.
really really love all your decorations!
@twofus_1 - i’m so excited too, girl. and are you sure you don’t want to carry it on?? i have one just sitting here i’d bring ya in a heartbeat!!
What a party! Just perfect & full of love. Lots of memories made. You look so pretty in your dress. All wonderful pictures.
God does care about the little things!